The reason it hurts so much to separate is because our souls are connected.
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Nicholas Sparks. If you are brave enough to say goodbye life will reward you with a new hello. Paulo Coelho. Leave something for someone but dont leave someone for something. Enid Blyton. Everybody has to leave, everybody has to leave their home and come back so they can love it again for all new reasons. Donald Miller. And the danger is that in this move toward new horizons and far directions, that I may lose what I have now, and not find anything except loneliness. Sylvia Plath. There are no goodbyes for us.
Wherever you are, you will always be in my heart. Mahatma Gandhi. A farewell is necessary before we can meet again, and meeting again after moments or a lifetime is certain for those who are friends.
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Richard Bach. Leaving things behind and starting again is a way of coping with difficulties. I learnt very early in my life that I was able to leave a place and still remain myself. Rachel Cusk. Leaving home in a sense involves a kind of second birth in which we give birth to ourselves.
Robert Neelly Bellah. However painful the process of leaving home, for parents and for children, the really frightening thing for both would be the prospect of the child never leaving home. You never really leave a place or person you love, part of them you take with you ,leaving a part of yourself behind. I hope the leaving is joyful; and I hope never to return. Frida Kahlo.
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People fear leaving their safe harbor of the known and venturing off into the unknown. Human beings crave certainty - even when it limits them. Robin S. The sea that calls all things unto her calls me, and I must embark.
Leaving Love (behind)
Kahlil Gibran. A fear of the unknown keeps a lot of people from leaving bad situations. Kathie Lee Gifford. However, the more I read about monogamy being some kind of ideal, the more I feel the need to write for the opposition. Two things made me write this article. While I understand that such things are a fine ideal for many, it is rather presumptuous that such an ideal is for everyone. Moreover, love is a complicated thing, and not so limited.
Our ability to love one person, in one way, does not preclude, by any means, the ability to love another person. For instance, to love a spouse does not mean that we cannot love our children, our parents, and others. I understand why. It can be a lot emotionally.
How do you know that you really love the person? The pressure to dedicate all of your love towards one individual makes it really difficult to be comfortable with the phrase.
But I say those words fairly easier. I thought about why our willingness to say them differs so. And finally, a couple of days ago, I reached my conclusion. But I am. Definitely not. Being in a relationship is complicated enough as it is. Having multiple lovers complicates matters even further. But at the same time, for people who are comfortable with loving more than one person, freeing oneself from the mindset of having to love only one individual is quite liberating. So what is love anyway?
Is loving more than one person reasonable, or normal? Maybe love is just a biochemical reaction in the brain.
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It it dependence? Is it divine? I think that love does involve a certain amount of dependence, and interdependence. We become accustomed to the person being with us, and interacting with us, and feel lonely when we are apart. A certain degree of dependence makes sense in every relationship.
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I also think that the ideal of a single love pushes us towards toxic dependence. Love is a very important part of human existence. How can it not? If we crave love, and resist the urge to love anyone except one person, then how can we function when that loved one is not around, especially for an extended period of time?